Why Do Ladies Adore Sweet Talking Men?
By Advisor. Filed in Dating Advice |
I don’t know why, however most of the guys has a stereotype: you must be like bodybuilder in order to be liked by girls. So, quite a lot of guys spend their time in gym working out. Nonetheless, other guys, who don’t really care about their muscles this much, spend their time with their girlfriends.
Nobody argues that, you need to be strong, so that your girlfriend could feel safe behind your back, but you don’t need to be a Stalone. Instead of going to gym every night and pumping your iron up, you should better learn sweet things to say to your girlfriend.
Ladies love sweet talking boys for many reasons, however we can reveal some of them for you.
Ladies see with their ears. Yes, you can go to gym and work out for ages to shape your body. But I will tell you my secret: girls see with ears. Nobody argues that, you need to to look nice (at least, until you you say your first sweet words), however if you can talk - you a way ahead of Mr. Terminator here. Ladies see with their ears and they love to hear sweet things about them. Therefore, it is your duty to come up with sweet things to say.
Ladies need attention (more than you can imagine). Like kids they need to be taken care of. Ladies need that you would call her sweet names, that you would brush her hair, that you would notice her new haircut. You should also spend your precious football match time with her. And if if you find time to give at least part of her “needs”, you are a winner. Moreover, if you are able to come up with sweet things to say while you are spending time with her, you are not a winner anymore - you have just become her hero.
Ladies assume you would do anything for them (and you must make sure she is right). “Can we go…” means drop all your plans and go with your girlfriend. “Could we buy…” means you should buy it. “Do you think…” means “Am I…” and so on. I understand that girls are talking in code language, but by saying that girls assume you would do anything for them, I meant, girls will really appreciate if you will try to understand them. And that’s all… if you manage to say that she is beautiful when she is complaining about her day, if you tell her that her eyes make you feel warm and love, when she is complaining about cold weather, you are onto something great here. Remember, sweet things to say - is not a quick solution - it is a challenge, you should take if you want to improve your relationship with any girl.
