Abusive Man
By Advisor. Filed in Jewish Dating |
Generally, almost all women would have had to deal with abusive men during some point of their lives..It is important that where abusive men are concerned, to realize that not only men who are physically abusive but even those who are emotionally abusive tend to fall into this category by definition. Normally men who are addicted to alcohol ,aggressive in nature, insecure,self-centered and who posses poor relationship building and communication skills would tend to be abusive.These men try to debase women constantly and attempt to place themselves as more superior.
Some tend to think that only women in rural, undeveloped areas tend to suffer due to abusive men. This is a big misconception. According to statistics, it is claimed that two thirds of married women would be victimized by domestic violence at least once in their lifetime.And it is not only women who are financially reliant on their husbands or boy friends who encounter this problem. The much publicized case in recent times where a celebrity was assaulted by her boyfriend proves that women everywhere tend to suffer due to abusive men.
Generally it is difficult to address the problem of abusive men as most women are unwilling to admit that their partners are abusive.This could be due to fear but some women are more than willing to forgive their partners after they apologize after abusing them. Disregarding this form of behavior only promotes it and it is also the responsibility of friends, relatives and neighbors to inform about abusive men.Failure to do so would very easily result in a tragedy and the ones who could have stepped in to stop it would have to live with it for the rest of their lives.
Scars left by abusive men are not confined to women. Abusive husbands who tend to assault their wives in the presence of their children end up mentally harming the children grievously. These children may display signs of depression, low self esteem and could even turn out to be abusive themselves.
Most abusive relationships men tend to be those who had bitter childhoods and could be those who were subjected to child abuse. Such people need guidance and help to overcome their past and their issues and trying to hide such incidents is never going to be a solution. There are many governmental and private organizations that could help abusive men and their loved ones to overcome their issues and it is a good idea to get professional guidance regarding such issues.
